Monday 21 July 2014

What is the Turn-It-Around Principle?

There is a lot to say about discovering yourself, living your true potential and facing your fears and difficulties.  We have to embrace life and learn how to overcome difficult situations so that we can move forward, improve ourselves and ultimately achieve our dreams.

Yet at the core of any life discovery is acceptance.  Acceptance without judgement.

Most of the problems, difficulties and challenges we face are not so much the actual circumstance in itself, but the fact that we judge or resist it.  The minute something goes wrong, we say “this is wrong, it shouldn't have happened – or I shouldn't be like this” etc. 

Talk about
self-discovery and how we need to change in order to improve?  Long before that we need to accept ourselves first. Discovering ourselves is not half as important as accepting ourselves first.

It is in this acceptance where the healing lies.

And this is where the Turn-Around Principle begins.  We cannot move forward unless we accept who we are, accept our circumstances, learn not to judge it and in so doing, we open the mind to look at positive possibilities as to how to Turn It Around!
That is the first step.

Secondly, the world of judgement can be devastating. We continuously judge ourselves, others and life. The root of self-esteem issues, in my opinion, begins here.  We don’t listen to one another because someone is always trying to be right.  We have difficulty in understanding one another – because that would depend ultimately on who wins the argument. 

How do I look at my life without judgement?
How do I look at my weaknesses, challenges and circumstances without it being WRONG?
This is the second step.

We form an understanding that every person, in his/her own right is unique, that circumstances are temporary and that we have, within our core, all the wisdom and ability to walk through these and to grow and to use every single weakness or barrier and turn it into a strength. Our fear can become our fuel.

And finally, once we learn how to do this – we pass it onto others. 
When we give away what we have learnt, when we make an effort to create understanding and remove judgement from others in the same way that we have removed it from ourselves – then we experience inner harmony and acceptance.
 
We don’t want to be right anymore, we want to be ourselves! We have the confidence and understanding that we can achieve, overcome and embrace life. We learn how to understand and love each other, our parents, our peers and our circumstances. 

In the light of the above, we have had huge success with the Turn Around Principle in adult workshops, turning from self-doubt and fear into self-awareness, worth and driving their own success in life and work – our teenagers need this. 

We can realise some of the learnings earlier in life,  we can be taught principles to turn any situation around from a young age.

This is why TEEN TURN AROUND was born.


Submitted by:

Michelle Vooght - Channel for Spiritual Teaching | Healing & Divine Guidance | Angel
Readings | Virtual / Face 2 Face | Inspirational Speaker & Trainer in Turn Around Principle

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